I really try my best to be the best person I can be. I also try to be the best girlfriend. but I’m a bit frustrated and annoyed at my current situation.
Tom is taking a trip. I asked him what I can help him with, and started trying to make a list of things I could do for him before he goes, so he wouldn’t have as much to do last minute. well, he told me not to do any of it and he would do it. I may have gotten a little offended by this(because come on, who refuses any kind of offered help?!) and decided to let him do it all himself.
well, it backfired and now he’s mad at me. he also says that I offered to help with the wrong things, and that he never refused my help(which just means that he wasn’t paying attention to me). and somehow it’s all my fault for giving him bad vibes before his trip. I really don’t think I’m that horrible of a person or girlfriend, but I don’t want to be shut down for trying to help.
side note, I picked up his cat from the vet and had to sit with him for 3 hours because he was falling all over the place.
oh yeah, and he was 2 hours late for dinner last night, no call, and he didn’t eat any when he got home. but I’m the bitch for being upset about it, of course.
but seriously, we hardly ever have arguments or anything like it. we really do have a pretty damn good relationship going on here.